Continue to write your feelings - here, or in a diary or journal of some sort. That is great therapy. Write letters to those who you feel anger toward too, then throw them out. Once the feelings are dealt with, the healing goes faster.
Awesome advice! You write very well and nothing works quite like putting pen to paper for a lot of people.
I was raised as a Unitarian, so I understand why people would suggest that religion as an alternative for a JW. You will be in for a shocker. In many ways the Unitarian religion is a polar opposite to the WTS. You pretty much believe what you want, period! The only pressure is to be accepting of everyone and everything. The congregations within a city are usually differant and range from liberal to super liberal. It is a vanilla religion in the truest sense with the diverse people and personalities providing the toppings.
As far as holidays, I don't know who makes a bigger deal or distorts their meaning or importance more than JW's.
It's just a time to be with family and friends, share a meal and be together. Period.
Halloween its a time for little kids to dress up and get candy. How cool is that to a little kid? FREE CANDY does it get any better than that?
What you have the really awesome opportunity to do as the loving husband and father of a three year old is to start your own family traditions.
The holiday season is a great time to start.
Reality...........You rule the world Wing Commander, you have a wife and a three year old cherub!